Nov. 9th, 2016

Today has not been the best of days. When I fell asleep last night sometime around 1 am, the election seemed mostly solidified, but there was still the smallest glimmer of hope. This morning, I awoke and felt that hope was gone. Beyond define my emotions with the most simple words (sadness and fear), I struggled to function this morning. I cried getting dressed, Sappho’s disobedience made me unrationally angry, and I have lacked the ability to focus on my work. In an effort to move beyond this state, I’ve been trying to identify and name what I’m feeling and the whys behind these feelings. I’m not one for political ramblings and postings, but in an effort to process I’ve written this, so I figure I’ll share…

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I feel scared for the future of our country. I feel scared for anyone who is black, Latino, queer, immigrant, female, trans, disabled, or does not identify (and appear) as a heterosexual, white, Christian male. Our next president has emboldened, and validated, so many in our country to outwardly express their hatred to those who are different than themselves, and that to me is terrifying.

I feel scared for the legality of my relationship with my wife and for the future of a family we hope to raise together. Liz and I are thinking about starting a family and I feel afraid about what our children will face when we bring them into the world. Will their moms still have a legal marriage? In a country where so many are clearly filled with so much hatred and bigotry, will they be loved and accepted by their friends and peers for who they are and the family they come from?

I feel scared about our economy. What will the job market look like in 4 years? Will our college graduates be able to find work? How about those with only a high school diploma? Who will be able to afford college? And what happens to all of those who are dependent on Obamacare if it gets ripped out from under them?

I feel scared about the future of our planet. For those who live near or below the sea-level. For those who live in regions threatened by pipelines, or fracking, or drilling. For those who have been fighting for their lives in Standing Rock. For the plants and animals with which we share this earth.

I feel scared for everyone in countries outside of the United States. What happens in the Middle East? What happens to our relationships with our allies? What happens to countries that rely on our trade for their economic stability? What happens in countries where no matter what we do, large portions of the population still seemingly admire and revere our “great nation” and want to emulate the “American way”?

And I also feel sad. I truly believe we have come a long way in the past 8 years. I don’t think our country is perfect, and I see many ways in which we can be better. But to think that we are potentially throwing that progress away, that we are moving backwards in our public policy, in our social rights, in our acceptance of one another, this saddens me deeply.  To think that there are so many people in our country who share or support the views of Trump not only terrifies me, but it is also incredibly upsetting.

Over a year ago, when this election “season” began, I strongly supported Bernie Sanders. I believed in his political stance and thought he had what it took to run the country. I thought he could make America better. And while I certainly was (and regrettably still am) anxious to see our first female president, I thought he was the best choice. When he lost the primary, I of course signed on with Hillary, but not with the same excitement. And admittedly, it wasn’t until the last few months of this election that I really started to feel strongly for our Democratic Candidate. I began to understand who she was, where she came from, and how our system and misogyny had turned her into the candidate that we all saw (and once again judged). Yesterday, I was surprised, when in filling in that little bubble on my ballot, I felt truly emotional. What an amazing thing to be voting for our first female president. I felt excitement, happy jitters, and also fairly confident that she would win.

In the aftermath, it’s hard to not reflect back and feel regret. How could I have made this outcome different? I could have picked up a phone and called voters, donated money, posted more political articles and opinions on my Facebook wall, gone to rallies, or so many other forms of political advocacy. So yes, in addition to sadness and fear I also disappointment with myself and guilt. Had it been Bernie, I would have done these things. But I did not for Hillary, and I should have.

While I think it is important to acknowledge and give value to our feelings, it is not helpful to wallow in them. I have privilege and power in this country, and I plan to do more to use it. I do not want to again feel like I could have done more. So I will take today to feel sad and fearful and sit with these feelings. But tomorrow I will use my sadness and fear and guilt to motivate me. I want to remember what this feels like and use the power and privilege I have to fight for what I believe in.

-Rachel

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The Numbers Are In! (And Backlogged Blog Posts: Traveling in the Closet & South Africa in a Nutshell)

Here it is. The moment you’ve all been waiting for. The synopsis of our trip in number format! We arrived home on May 8th and somewhere between unpacking, repacking, flying to Oregon for a long weekend to celebrate Liz’s sister’s graduation (Congrats Abigail!), and trying to locate our belongings in Rachel’s parents’ basement we found time to go through our notes and compile these statistics. Enjoy!

Number of countries visited: 11
Number of languages we attempted to learn at least a few words of: 14
Total number of days on the road: 206
Expense total (for both of us, including all food, visas, transport, flights, accommodation, gifts, and splurges):$11,930
Average amount spent per person per day (excluding flights and super special splurges): $16.57
Cheapest country visited (based on $/per person/day): Malaysia – $8.13
Most expensive country visited (based on $/per person/day): Zambia – $39.10
Number of farms we worked on: 3 (for a total of 6 weeks)
Number of times Rachel super glued to soles of her Chacos back on: 5 (using 9 tubes of super glue)
Number of blog posts written: 38 (including this one)
Number of pictures taken: 18,616 (for you old folks, that’s 517 rolls of film!)
Number of marriage proposals (from random men on the street): 19
Accommodation Breakdown:
-Nights spent in guest houses/grungy hotels/trendy backpackers/any other place where we payed someone money to sleep in a “room”: 76
-Nights spent camping/sleeping in our tent (including camping at backpackers): 45
-Nights spent CouchSurfing: 30
-Nights spent sleeping on buses, planes, trains, boats, and other modes of uncomfortable transportation: 12
Total kilometers traveled overland (very approximate….): 20,000 km (for all of you Americans, that’s approximately 12,500 miles)
Number of books read: 17 (most of them we each read)
Number of hours we spent apart: 20 (8 of those occurred during the last 6 days at AfrikaBurn)
Number of people that we met who were memorable enough to write about in our notebook: 534

This incredible trip would not have been possible without all of these 534 people, and so many more back home who helped us along the way. We are extremely grateful to every individual we met along the way who provided us with food, rides, accommodation, gifts, amazing conversation, or simply funny stories and beautiful memories. We know that we owe many of you emails, phone calls, postcards and so much more and we ask that you forgive our delay – readjusting to life in the states is taking a while. And thank you to everyone who has been following this blog over the past 7 months. We know our grammar wasn’t always perfect, our sentences frequently ran-on, and our formatting occasionally made things unreadable, but it meant a lot to us to know that people back home were sharing in our journey. And to all of you who have thought that the past 7 months of our lives have sounded amazing (they were), we urge you to take a trip of your own, however big or small. There’s a beautiful world out there filled with fabulous people. Go explore it.

A very rough look at our journey through Southeast Asia

A very rough look at our journey through Southeast Asia

Sort of the route we took through Africa

Sort of the route we took through Africa

And now, keeping with the trend of time-lapse in our blog, here are two final blogs that we never got a chance to post (aka to write) while we were on the road. Enjoy, and thanks again for reading!

Backlogged Blog Posts (Sorry for the delay, we’ve been kind of busy lately!)

Traveling in the Closet

Written by Rachel

When we crossed the border into South Africa there were many things on our minds. To begin with, it was our last border crossing and we marveled at the fact that every single one had gone smoothly. We worried about where we would spend the night since it was 9 pm and we were still an hour from our destination, the small town of Upington, SA, which we knew absolutely nothing about. And Liz tried to get me to stop making fun of her for being so gullible when the police officer had handed her a long tube (used for checking the gas tank in vehicles crossing the border) and told her to swallow it because people with dreads are known for taking drugs and he needed to check her stomach. But more than anything else, we were feeling happy because for the first time in months it would be both legal and sociably acceptable for us to be completely open and honest about our relationship.

One of the biggest challenges we faced over our 7 months of traveling together was how to deal with our relationship. It wasn’t a problem of spending too much time together or getting tired of eachother (in actuality we only spent 20 hours apart over the course of our trip and the only bad thing that happened is that our minds have started to meld into one), but rather how other people viewed our relationship. And unfortunately, it was an issue we had to face nearly every day. Whether trying to get a room in a guest house, making a CouchSurfing request, or simply wanting to hold hands when walking down a street, in the back of our minds was always the lingering thought of whether or not we could be openly gay. In our lives back in the states we have been very fortunate. The community in which we live is very accepting and open and rarely have we had to think twice about whether or not it is “ok” let alone dangerous for us to be together, so it was a massive adjustment for us to make and something that we struggled with throughout the trip.

Before we began our trip back in October, we knew that we would have to face the fact that in much of the world homosexuality is either illegal or at least quite taboo. We did a bit of research to try to understand the various levels of legal prohibition that we would experience* and also tried to gain an understanding of levels of acceptance within various countries. Yet it wasn’t until we were on the ground in Southeast Asia and actually on our trip that we were forced to consider the implications of our relationship, particularly in regards to our interactions with locals.

As we’ve mentioned before, CouchSurfing was one of our main outlets for meeting local people (see blog post). Through CouchSurfing we were welcomed into the homes of over a dozen individuals and families in every country we visited. We shared meals, learned about local customs, cultures, and what life is like for expats in various countries, and shared stories from our travels and our life in New Hampshire. It is a community that is built on trust and respect and a general acceptance for diversity in every form. Yet in the beginning of our trip, we struggled a great deal with how to broach the subject of our relationship. On one hand, we wanted to maintain the honesty and trust that the community is built upon. Not telling potential hosts that we were a couple seemed to be a major violation of this key principle. Yet at the same time, we understood that people were coming from many different backgrounds and societies with different cultural norms than we were accustomed to and we didn’t want us or them to miss out on an experience because of prejudice. Because of the worlds that we were traveling through, we had quickly become accustomed to not acting like we were in a relationship and although it wasn’t our preference, in the beginning we felt that we could continue this “act” in the homes of CouchSurfing hosts that we didn’t want to make feel uncomfortable. After a few interactions, however, we were the ones feeling uncomfortable. The dishonesty that stemmed from essentially hiding our relationship was too much. So we did our best to make our relationship as public as possible on our CouchSurfing profiles and left it up to potential hosts to decide if they wanted a lesbian couple in their house. For a time, we even started searching exclusively for people in the “Queer CouchSurfing” group (as on Facebook you can join various groups/networks for discussion and meet-up purposes).

Yet even with explicitly writing in our requests that my girlfriend and I would like to stay with them, and the fact that on our profiles it says we are in a relationship (and are members of the Queer CouchSurfing group), many people we stayed with did not pick up on our relationship. Largely I think it was because it was either so taboo or so uncommon within their culture that it just never crossed their minds. Additionally, even when people were aware of the fact that we’re together, we tried to not act like it too much out of respect for their individual beliefs and comfort levels. Our biggest fear, whether or not it was valid, was offending people who had gone out of their way to help us. Unfortunately, it wasn’t until the end of our trip that we even began to question this mentality.

While the CouchSurfing world was certainly the most confusing to handle and the one that we struggled with the most, we were faced with questions on how to approach our relationship in many other regards. Many times, it became an issue when checking into a guest house. In Southeast Asia, the cheapest accommodation is local guest houses (and we always did what was cheapest!). Backpackers or hostels are trendy and end up costing more so while many young Westerners chose these options, we went where the locals stay. As a result, many people we interacted with behind the counter were not as accustomed to gay couples, because in most places it was either not part of the culture at all or completely hidden because of legality. And so rarely did we ask for one bed. Fortunately, in some places getting a room with one double bed was actually cheaper than a room with two single beds, which gave us a nice out (again, we always choose the cheaper option!). Other times, one bed was all that they had to offer and when they apologized or asked if it was ok, we nonchalantly told them not to worry. In a few rare instances the receptionist would even ask us what we’d prefer: one bed or two. Those were good days. But in many cases, before we walked into the cheapest, grungiest guest house in town, we would have a discussion about whether or not it was worth asking for one bed. Often times, the decision would come down to how long we were staying in said accommodation and how illegal being gay was in that particular country.

Mostly our attitude in public was one of no PDA and essentially to the eyes of passerbys we were just friends (although many also thought we were sisters). There would be whole days when we would never touch each other. Nevertheless, some people still picked up on the fact that we are together. Interestingly enough, nearly every American we met realized, and usually within minutes of us introducing ourselves. With Europeans and some younger, urban locals it was about 50/50, although we weren’t as open about discussing it so in reality the numbers could be higher. And with rural locals, the discussion never once came up. It is certainly possible that some knew or at least suspected something and felt uncomfortable asking, but mostly the question they asked us was “Where are your boyfriends?” We would try to not completely lie and explain that we were in relationships and that it was complicated or some other vague excuse. In one instance that was particularly funny, we were sitting in the car outside a shopping center with Vino, the young Botswanan woman who, along with her boyfriend Tony, offered to let us camp in her backyard after picking us up hitchhiking. We were waiting for Tony to come back from buying veggies when Vino turned to look at us in the backseat and asked, “Are you dating?” The question came as a total shock, we had only known her for a couple of hours and as usual had not (in our opinion) let on at all to the fact that we’re together. I paused for a good amount of time and then asked, “What?” She repeated herself: “Are you dating?” Again, there was a pause as I tried to puzzle through where this question was coming through and how the hell she had picked up on our relationship. I came up with nothing so again asked: “What?” For the third time she asked: “Are you dating?”, but then fortunately clarified: “Do you have boyfriends at home?” Liz and I simultaneously breathed a sigh of relief and reverted to our usual vague response.

The story is funny in retrospect, but it brought up the same discomfort that we faced when CouchSurfing. Why were we lying? This woman just invited us into her house, cooked us an amazing dinner, opened up to us about her relationship with Tony, and seemed pretty open-minded and yet we still felt the need to not be totally honest either to protect her or ourselves. A few days later when CouchSurfing with Marita in Windhoek, Namibia we finally discussed the issue in great depth. Marita, a very liberal young Namibian journalist was one of the first CouchSurfing hosts who really asked us about our relationship and how it affected our traveling. It was a welcome relief to be able to talk so openly and we tried to explain the frustration and internal conflict that we had been feeling for 6 months. We didn’t feel good about how we had been facing the issue, no matter which approach we used nothing seemed right. She asked us why we hadn’t used our interactions to educate people instead of “protecting” them from the truth. It was a good question and since then we’ve thought about it a lot. A large part of us regrets our decisions to be so cautious and to not make more of the opportunity. Of course that is easy to say in retrospect.

In many of the countries we traveled through, being gay, lesbian, or transgender is illegal. In most countries the penalties for men are much more severe. In Tanzania for instance, women can be sentenced to 7 years in jail while for men the punishment is 14 years behind bars. Yet even in countries where it is not punishable by law, in many places it is still very taboo. When we arrived in Malaysia in late October the Ministry of Education had just issued a pamphlet to the nation’s teachers to help them identify gay students so that they would be able to “fix” them. On the list of “gay features” were: Boys who wear v-neck t-shirts; Boys who have many female friends; Boys who carry over the shoulder bags. And worst of all, after talking to a local teacher, we learned that many of the nation’s educators actually believed what they read. So yes, it is easy to say in retrospect that it would have been great to make more out of our interactions and educate people, but at the time, being on the ground in countries where we didn’t fully know the laws and the repercussions, I think we were scared.

Upon entering South Africa we breathed a big sigh of relief. We were finally back in a country where we could be openly gay and out about our relationship. Sure, just as in the States, there are people who are homophobic and would discriminate against homosexuals, but as a nation South Africa is very far along. There are laws in place to prevent discrimination against gays and lesbians in the workplace and gay marriage is legal nationwide. In the three weeks we were in the country we met many lesbian couples who were married and spent some time talking to them about their experience. When purchasing our boat tickets to go to Robbin Island, the woman selling them to us asked at one point: “Are you two together?” We paused, our instinctive response was some bizarre lie. But then we smiled and answered truthfully. She returned our smile and said, “I can tell. I’m gay too.” Then she pointed to the woman at her right and added, “This is my wife!” We talked for a while and in the end she invited us to come out to the township where a lot of Cape Town’s black lesbians were living for a party on the upcoming holiday of Worker’s Day. Unfortunately we wouldn’t be in town anymore, but we were flattered by the invitation, and thoroughly enjoyed getting to talk to her.

Before embarking on this adventure, we knew we were lucky. Not only because of the amazing relationship that we have, but also because we live in a place where we are permitted to have this relationship. If we want, we can get married, have children, and hopefully soon our marital benefits (if we ever get full-time jobs!) would be honored on a national level. We can walk down the street and hold hands and not be scared of repercussions from our government or people around us. When we were in Malaysia, we CouchSurfed with a British woman named Liz and her young son. They were living in Malaysia because Liz was working for the Department of Education to help train teachers. They had been in the country for a while and we had the privilege to meet many wonderful people in her community of friends. Among the group were two young Malay men, just 18 years old, who had been fortunate enough in their relatively homophobic country to find each other and create a relationship. Unfortunately, their families couldn’t know, they couldn’t be open in public, in their entire world the only place they could really “be in a relationship” was at Liz’s house. We are lucky. But this trip really put into perspective just how lucky we are. The U.S. still has a long way to go, but at least things are moving in the right direction, and they seem to be moving fairly quickly. Perhaps next time when we travel we will be braver about educating people and sharing our story so that opinions in other places of the world can change as well.

*For a good source on LGBT rights and laws around the world check out: http://ilga.org/

South Africa in a Nutshell

Written by Liz

When we decided to go to Namibia, it did cross our minds that our trek across South Africa would be less than practical. However, it wasn’t until we sat in a minibus taxi for 12 hours, slept sitting in chairs in the taxi office, took another taxi for 12 hours, and arrived in the town of Queenstown at 10pm without any idea where we would stay, that the true implications of our travel plans hit us. However, we managed to find a place to stay and the next morning hitched and walked the rest of the way to the small and charming town of Hogsback where Rachel had spent some time back in 2010. Hogsback is a mountain town that is known for its numerous hiking trails, waterfalls, and several nice backpackers. It is also home to the Hobbiton Outdoor Education Center where Rachel had found herself during her last stay in South Africa. We spent one night at a backpackers where we cuddled by the fire and met a couple of bikers who have been tackling the world on a tandem bike. The next morning we packed up our belongings and walked to the Outdoor Center where Rachel’s friends had invited us to stay. We spent the remainder of our time there reconnecting with Rachel’s friends, wandering through the forests that reminded us very much of home, and trying to keep warm despite the constant drizzle and freezing temperatures. When it was time to go, we both agreed that the troubles of our travels had been well worth it.

We went next to the small city of Port Elizabeth, home to Rachel’s friend Elri whom she worked with in Colorado. Elri hosted a braii that first night, just to introduce us to her friends and community. The next morning we headed into town and went to the coast where another of Rachel’s friends was working to create a new teambuilding ropes course at a resort. Jules took time out of his busy schedule to show us around the ropes course, and take us to a lighthouse and penguin rehabilitation center. We spent one more night in Port Elizabeth. The next morning we checked out the street art around the city center before boarding our favorite form of transportation: the long distance taxi, which would take us to the small town of Nature’s Valley.

We chose Nature’s Valley as our stop over between Port Elizabeth and Cape Town mostly because the description of the Wild Spirit Backpackers sounded so good. We weren’t disappointed. Nature’s Valley is a small coastal town close to the Tsitsikamma National Park. We arrived in the afternoon and were immediately impressed by Wild Spirit. There was a beautiful lodge with a breathtaking view of the surrounding mountains, a nice kitchen for our use, a big field (with horses!) for us to camp in, and many hiking trails starting directly from the property. We were smitten. We met many like-minded people and went on several hikes, including a longer one down to the coast. In the afternoon we went to a farm stand that sold local cheese, vegetables, and even home made ice cream. Staying in Nature’s Valley felt a bit like coming home.

After two days it was time to keep moving to Cape Town since AfrikaBurn was looming in the not-so-distant future and we had many things to prepare. We spent half of a day in the larger town of Plettenberg Bay before taking an overnight bus to Cape Town. We then spent two days in the heart of Cape Town exploring the many shops, markets, and the darker history of the country during Apartheid. We visited the District 6 museum which documents a community that was displaced during that time and went to Robben Island, the prison where Nelson Mandela was held for 18 years. We then moved to the small, coastal town of Haut Bay where we stayed with the woman who was giving us a ride to AfrikaBurn. We spent the next day grocery shopping, organizing, and creating our glorious costumes for the festival. At 4:30 on the morning of May 1st we left for the desert.

AfrikaBurn, for those who don’t know, is an event modeled on Burning Man which is held in the United States. For six days about 7,000 people live in the desert about 300 kilometers northeast of Cape Town. This community is based on self sufficiency, generosity, an absence of money, and an abundance of creativity and freedom. AfrikaBurn was the perfect culmination to our travel experience. It’s a bit difficult to summarize in words so we’ll let these pictures tell the story.

After six days in the desert we were shocked to find ourselves back in the bustle of Cape Town, and even more shocked when 24 hours later we found ourselves at the Cape Town Airport. In the end, South Africa was a wonderful country where we were able to reconnect with many friends, make many new friends, and visit places that reminded us of, and excited us for, home.

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It’s Happening…

We are sitting in the Cape Town airport waiting for our flight back home. We are feeling very sad that this journey is already over, but we are excited to see all our friends and family at home. We are unable to fully process now (six days of AfrikaBurn in the desert took a lot out of us), but we promise more posts to come soon including some final reflections and some backlogged blog post. For now, here are the top 10 things we are most looking forward to about coming home (and the happy thoughts that are keeping us from getting too emotional):  

1. Not changing locations every day

2. Our friends and family

3. Having our own transportation

4. Mexican food (with the right ingredients)

 5. Our Carharts/having more than 2 outfits at our disposal

 

6. Sleeping in a bed most nights 7. Seasons 8. Not being called “rasta” at least 10 times a day 9. Not living out of am backpack

 

10. All of the social events we already have planned!   That’s all for now, but stay tuned for more closing thoughts in the coming weeks! And looking forward to seeing some of you very soon!

 

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Update: we are now In the Doha airport in Qatar, there ended up being no free wifi in CT. And sorry for the bad formatting, our technology is being sstupid and after a 13 hr flight we are too groggy to care.

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Namibian Roadtripping – A Phlog

For the past week we’ve been traveling in style. Due to Namibia’s lack of public transportation, we abandoned our normal methods and rented ourselves a car! In our cute little silver Volkswagen Polo we cruised over 1700 kilometers in six days on mostly gravel roads to three National Parks and one private park. We camped every night, went on amazing hikes, cooked delicious meals, jammed out to good tunes, watched the sunrise twice and many sunsets, did some fabulous desert stargazing, and of course took thousands of pictures! Here’s a few to look through to give you a better idea of our wonderful Namibian roadtrip.

Stop 1: The Naukluft Mountains

The Naukluft Mountains are a desert region about 5 hours southeast of Walvis Bay filled with stunning plateau mountains, awesome succulent plants, many dry riverbeds, and lots of wildlife. We camped there one night and went on a nice 17 km hike that offered us excellent views of the area. We even found some really good swimming holes to cool off in. The only downer was a ferocious baboon who frequented the campground.

Stop 2: Sossusvlei

The number one tourist attraction in Namibia, Sossusvlei is the gateway to the Namib Desert. Characterized by giant red sand dunes, vast blue skies, and dried up white mud pans filled with dead trees, it is truly a remarkable sight. We watched the sun both rise and set over the dunes, went for a grueling 10 km walk in the sand, ran up dunes and jumped back down, and even visited the nearby Sesriem Canyon.

Stop 3: The Fish River Canyon

Millions of years old, the Fish River Canyon is the 2nd largest canyon in the world. We decided we had to go see it even though we couldn’t go on the 120 km hike through the canyon as it’s closed this time of year. It didn’t disappoint. Again we watched both the sunrise and sunset, walked around to many viewpoints, and cooled off in the campground swimming pool.

Stop 4: Aus

Just a little bit east of the Namibian coast, Aus is a small and historic town nestled in amongst large rock koppies and boulder fields. We camped at the lovely Klein-Aus Vista in the privately owned Gondwana Sperrgebiet Rand Park and spent some time exploring their extensive network of trails and learning about Aus’ role in WWI and the Namibian diamond rush. At night we cooked up some delicious sausage over a fire.

Stop 5: Luderitz

Our last stop was Luderitz, a beautiful little town full of colorful buildings built by the Germans at the turn of the century. It is sandwiched between the Atlantic Ocean, the Namib Desert, and the Sperrgebiet (the restricted diamond zone) and we had time to explore the surrounding rocky coast before returning the car. We stayed at an awesome backpackers and spent time walking all around town. We also went 11 km east to the ghost town of Kolmanskop, which had been a booming diamond mining town but was completely abandoned in the 50s and has since been taken over by the dunes.

We had an awesome time with our little rental car, although it was a rude awakening to go back to traveling without our own vehicle. We overcame the obstacles, however, and after 3 minibus rides and half a dozen hitches (with about 20 km of walking in between), we have made it to Hogsback, South Africa! YAY! Unfortunately, it feels like winter here and we no longer own enough warm clothes to be adequately dressed. Heading to the Sunshine Coast tomorrow, where hopefully it will be a little warmer (and sunnier)!

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Proof That People Are Good

When we meet people and tell them that we’re traveling for 7 months, they’re usually pretty curious. They want to know where we’ve been and where we’re going, what we’ve liked and what’s been challenging. Recently, however, the question we’ve been asked the most is: Who’s funding your trip? We are then usually given two choices: your parents or your government? We’ve found this question quite amusing. Of course there’s some truth to both of these answers. Our parents have given us some money in the form of birthday or holiday presents, and my parents took very good care of us during our time together in Tanzania. As for the government, we recently got our tax returns, which certainly helped our bank accounts. And the fact that our country’s currency is so strong is one of the major reasons why we can afford to travel. Yet the main way that our trip is funded is through the money we saved from working our seasonal jobs back home. Usually this blows people’s minds when we tell them and no matter how much we try to explain, they are convinced that somebody must be giving us money. In response to their confusion, we’ve spent a good amount of time discussing how we’ve made this trip work, both financially and logistically, and what we’ve come to realize most, is that the reason it’s worked is largely due to the people we’ve met along the way.  

More than anything else, the number one thing I’ve learned over the past 6 months is that people are incredibly generous. I know that’s a very vague statement, and sure, we’ve met people who tried to cheat us and make an extra buck at our expense, but for the most part, we have been overwhelmingly impressed by the people we have met all throughout our travels. It’s been through their support that we’ve been able to manage this trip. Whether it was a free lunch on the side of the road in Malaysia, a man in Zambia who gave us a virtually free hitch when the standard is to pay, the numerous CouchSurfing hosts who have not only welcomed us into their homes but also taken us out for delicious meals, or a lodge owner in Botswana who let us stay in a fancy room for the night at a fraction of the actual cost, people all over have repeatedly gone out of their way to help us and in turn allowed us to travel on a very small budget. Recently, however, we’ve had two amazing experiences that have gone above and beyond the normal levels of generosity.  

The first began with a seemingly normal hitching day on the side of the road just west of Maun, Botswana. As with all of our other travel days, things weren’t going exactly as planned. After sitting around for 2 hours in a bus station nursing a hangover and waiting for a departure that wasn’t going to happen until much later, if at all, we had given up and moved outside of town to the “hitching spot”. In Botswana there isn’t much of a public transportation system and so people gather at key junctions and gas stations and hope to get picked up. The upside is that hitching (locally just called “hiking”) is pretty common so unlike in Southeast Asia, people actually stop instead of just giving you funny looks. The downside is that there are often a lot of people waiting at the same spot and because it’s the main way to get around, people expect you to pay for your ride. Nevertheless, eventually you almost always get a lift and it’s a great way to meet people, and therefore one of our preferred modes of travel. And so it was that we ended up in the backseat of Tony and Vino’s sedan, along with a man from Botswana who was headed to Namibia.  

Tony and Vino had been in Maun for Easter Weekend (in Botswana it’s a big holiday weekend with both Friday and Monday off) visiting Vino’s family and were on their way back to Ghanzi, which was conveniently our destination. After a little conversation about our travels and that we were planning to find a place to camp in Ghanzi that night, Vino offered to let us pitch our tent in their yard. She explained that their house just had one room and her sister was already staying there with them, but we could be free to stay in the yard and use the bathroom, etc. Not ones to turn down such kind offers, we accepted. Yet not only did Vino and Tony open up their house (and yard) to us, Vino also cooked a delicious dinner and insisted that we eat large portions. After dinner we watched South African soap operas and talked about how Tony and Vino met, their plans for the future, the differences between land ownership in Botswana and the U.S. as well as our travels and our lives in the states. We exchanged emails and Facebook information and made them promise to let us know if they come to the States. In the morning Tony woke up before dawn to drive us to a bus so we could continue on to Windhoek in Namibia. All in all, it was an incredibly relaxing and enjoyable night and we were both so grateful to Tony and Vino, who went out of their way for us.  

Yet our recent spell of good luck did not end there. Just last week, we experienced generosity unlike any other on our trip thus far (and arguably in our lives as well!) when we were “rescued” from the Jakkalsputz Walking Trail. Due to a lack of planning on our part, we found ourselves with about 5 days to kill on the Namibian coast near Swakopmund and Walvis Bay while we waited around for a rental car to be available. After spending a day and a half exploring the quaint German town of Swakopmund, we hitched north to Henties Bay with the goal of completing the Jakkalsputz Walking Trail. The illusive Jakkalsputz Walking Trail had been briefly mentioned by Lonely Planet and after the Swakopmund Information Center knew nothing about it, we turned to the internet for more information. According to the Henties Bay town webpage, the walking trail is an unmarked route that begins south of “The Gallows” and continues 17 km to the Jakkalsputz Campground. You can then allegedly return to Henties Bay via the also unmarked Omaruru River Walking Trail, which traverses 20 km back through fields of desert lichen to the mouth of the Omaruru River. It sounded like a perfect loop. We made it to Henties Bay around 11 am last Sunday, but of course the information center was closed. Unphased by our lack of real information, we started heading south along the unmarked Jakkalsputz Walking Trail, aka the beach.  

By 12:30, after passing by many fishermen who were confused to see us walking down the beach with our big backpacks (we now believe we were the first to ever “hike” the Jakkalsputz Walking Trail), we reached the Jakkalsputz Campground. Totally bewildered as to how we had walked 17 km in just over an hour, we sat down and ate lunch. Afterwards we explored the campground, which was approximately 4 kilometers of gravel camping area running along the beach with pit toilets every 50 meters. Halfway down there was an office. Everything was completely deserted and really quite depressing. We were nearing the end (the last pit toilet was looming in the distance) when we came upon 6 men hanging out braaing (South African/Namibian for BBQing) behind their pickup trucks. We said hello, they asked us if we were hungry, we of course said yes.  

As we soon learned, the six men, ranging in age from about 30’s to 60’s, were all somewhat related (3 brothers, 2 son-in-laws, and a nephew), and most were visiting from Botswana for a fishing trip. Peet and Fred, two of the brothers and the older men of the group, were the most talkative and after feeding us fresh caught fish, homemade sausage (from Fred’s farm), and sweet wine, they wanted to know where we planned to spend the night. Between our early arrival at the Jakkalsputz Campground and the eerie deserted vibe of the whole place, our plan had been totally disrupted. We had no idea where we wanted to spend the night. Peet and Fred were worried about our safety and offered to give us a ride back to civilization. After they mentioned the hyenas in the area and we started to shiver from the wind and the fog coming off of the Atlantic, we decided to take them up on it. What started off as a lift progressed into a guided off-road tour of a shipwreck on the beach and then the coastal region south to Swakopmund, and by the time we neared town, Peet had offered to let us spend the night with them in Walvis Bay.  

We ended up spending 3 nights in Walvis Bay with Peet, Fred, and their family. There were 3 generations and about a dozen people, and eventually we figured out how everybody was connected (we think). Monia, Fred’s daughter and the one whose house we actually stayed in, made us feel completely at home. We took hot showers, played video games with her daughter, read stories with her 3 year old neice, and relaxed. During one day, Peet and Fred drove us all over the town to show us the flamingos, an old lighthouse, the salt mine, and the seals. They took us fishing and then to Dune 7, the tallest dune in the country. After Liz and I climbed up, they insisted on getting us each souvenirs and certificates saying we climbed the dune.  

Each night we returned to the house and feasted. Monia and her sister cooked fabulous foods like homemade bread and stuffed mushrooms. There was always a huge array of meat that was cooked on the indoor grill and included more homemade sausage, lamb, pork, and one night they even baked a sheep’s skull. From the skull we sampled not only the tongue and cheek, but also the brain! The last night we were there we had sushi, shrimp, and scallops. Our glasses were always kept full and I don’t think we ate as well on our entire trip. When we finally left Walvis Bay on Wednesday morning we felt completely rejuvenated,  but also sad to be leaving. Everyone had been so welcoming and generous with us. For a few days we had become part of their family.  

In the past six months we have experienced so much generosity, and it has really been what has made this trip possible. We hope that some day Vino or Tony or Monia or Peet or Fred or any of the other people we’ve met along the way will be able to visit us so that we can repay them for all that they gave us. But even if that doesn’t happen, they’ve inspired us and hopefully we can follow their example in our life back home.

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Liz and Vino

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Ready to start the Jakkalsputz Walking Trail

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The Jakkalsputz Campground

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Jackals and seals

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Old lighthouse

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Salt factory in Walvis Bay

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Fishing

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Bailey's on the beach...

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Liz on Dune 7

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With Fred at Dune 7

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With Peet at Dune 7

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Sheep skull

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Plate of meat!

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Scallops

Lastly, today we celebrate 6 months since we left the U.S.!  Crazy how time flies…

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Surfing Around the World

Written by Liz

Couchsurfing has been the single most rewarding experience of this entire trip. Thus far we have surfed 15 times in 9 out of the 10 countries we have visited. Couchsurfing is an online global network that allows travelers to host and stay with eachother almost anywhere in the world. It is a free community that is built on trust and respect. The only stipulation is that if you use it to surf, you will offer to host someday, something we have already done at home. Typically, it is easiest to find hosts in cities. We look at the website to see if there is anyone we are interested in staying with. We are able to read a profile about each person, an explanation of the sleeping situation, and even references from other people they have hosted. Once we decide on someone we send them a request and wait to hear back. Couchsurfing offers us the ability to connect with locals, go to places we otherwise wouldn’t, and, of course, save some money on accommodation. Every couchsurfing experience is different, which is one of the big draws for us, and the reason we do it again and again.

When we are approaching a new town after a long travel day, I usually feel one of two ways. When we have chosen to stay at a guesthouse, hotel, or backpacker’s hostel I feel a small amount of anxiety because I wonder if there will be space for us, if the prices will be higher than we are expecting, or if it will be challenging to find and walk to. However, before we ever get off the bus, or train, or car I know exactly what the room we will find will look like. It will have a bed with a saggy mattress, a single pillow, and a thin sheet folded over a dubiously clean blanket. Above the bed there will (hopefully) be a fan. It is probably the type that automatically oscillates in a wide circle around the room so that it only briefly points to bed, the only place where the breeze is truly essential. There may be a desk, or a wardrobe, or a table, but maybe not. There is always a bare lightbulb, although sometimes it doesn’t work. The walls are cinder block, painted over in an unattractive color. There might be a window. Down the hall is the bathroom which may have a squat toilet, or a seat, warm water or only cold, perhaps a sink. There may or may not be toilet paper, and if we’re really lucky, a bar of soap.

Though the details change from room to room, town to town, the picture is always the same. I know that room well. And don’t get me wrong, it’s not a bad room. In that room we are able to do everything we need to in a night, and the price is right. No, the main problem with that room is that it’s predictable. And everything that goes along with that room is predictable too. I know that, for the most part, the people I meet that night will either be Westerners, tourists and travelers like myself, or else they will be locals in the hospitality industry, who, through no fault of there own, will see us and our interactions as a part of their job. Of course there’s nothing wrong with these people either, it’s just that I know them already, and I know the limits of our interactions. I know that we will roam the streets for a while before dinner. I know the kind of food we will eat. This is the routine, the pattern we have followed for countless nights over the last six months.

However, if we are approaching a town where we will be couchsurfing, the feelings are all different. There is still a small amount of anxiety over the meshing of personalities, the ease of finding the person. But mostly what I feel is the excitement of the unknown. With couchsurfing you never, ever know what to expect. There is no such thing as a normal couchsurfing experience. We have stayed with older women and young men, ex-pats, families, and fellow travelers. We have couchsurfed in a hostel and in a shop, in governmnt apartments, and in modern homes. We’ve slept on floors, couches, and beds. But no matter where we are and who we are with, when we couchsurf we open a door into someone else’s world, usually a world we could never have imagined or experienced in any other way.

The Night of the Sari (see blog post) may just be our greatest couchsurfing story to date (and perhaps the best story from this entire trip), but there have been many other stories too. Through couchsurfing we’ve smoked hookah with recent Indian immigrants in Singapore, listened to a band in a recording studio in Malaysia, shopped for kitchen tiles at a hardware store in Thailand, driven in circles while a dog chased behind in Laos, had our picture printed on business cards in Cambodia, went clubbing in Kenya, talked to a room full of high schoolers in Tanzania, and watched South African soap operas in Botswana.

The most recent door we stepped through was in the city of Windhoek, Namibia, where we entered the world of Marita. Marita is a white Namibian who has spent much of her life in Winhoek. She works as a journalist, traveling the country and writing for many tourism themed magazines. Her apartment is close to the city center and is filled with an inspiring collection of art, photography, books, and two lovely cats.

We stayed with Marita for three nights. During the days while Marita was at work, we explored Windhoek and tried (fairly unsuccessfully) to plan the rest of our time in Namibia. She met us during her lunch break one day to show us around The Location, the part of town where the black Namibians were forced to live during apartied. In the evenings we would reconvene at her apartment before going out for dinner and some sort of cultural or art event. We kept gravitating to a bar and restaurant called The Warehouse that had a surprising number of events going on, considering it was the middle of the week. One night we listened to a 19 year old with a pretty good voice sing some pretty good American pop songs. And when that was over we caught the end of a spoken word poetry event. The next night we returned for a stand up comedy show that Marita was taking photos for. We had seen them rehearse the night before and weren’t really sure what to expect. But when we saw the line at the door waiting to get in we knew they had to be good. The show was very well put together and professional and the comedians were hilarious. We thouroughly enjoyed ourselves. And we realized just how much one can learn about a culture through comedy. It was fascinating to see the kinds of things people thought were funny and the types of issues and topics that came up. When it was over there was another musical performance happening in another space! We got back to the appartment late, tired but filled with powerful scenes of a thriving art community in Windhoek.

Sadly, we don’t know how many more opportunities we’ll have to couchsurf on this trip. But we are both definitely ready to dive into our role of host once we are set up again somewhere. So please, to any of those people who have shared their homes, stories, work, food, animals, washing machines, and so much more with us on this trip, come stay with us and let us start repaying the generosity that is really what’s made this trip possible.

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Travel Days Photos

Here’s the other pictures we meant to add before but couldn’t! Enjoy!

Update: We have just entered our 10th country – Namibia! Botswana was wonderful, more on that to come. In 5 weeks we will be home….

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Travel Days

An inevitable part of our traveling through 9 countries on 2 different continents has been moving. In the past 167 days of travel, we’ve had approximately 55 days that are what we call “Travel Days” (yes, we are keeping meticulous notes of this entire trip). “Travel Days” are days when we move from one location to another. Each travel day varies in it’s destination and mode of
transport, but they all have these characteristics in common: we wake up early, we put on our special “travel day clothing”
(specific sports bras and spandex that are best suited to hold passports and money close to our bodies and pants that are good for climbing into the backs of trucks) we eat inadequate meals, we intentionally dehydrate ourselves by consuming as little water as possible (you never know when the next bathroom stop will be), and it always takes longer than expected. ALWAYS. There is no such thing as an “easy Travel Day”.

Way back when we began our trip in October I think we looked at travel days in a different manner. I would wake up in the morning
excited, albeit annoyed with the early alarm, but excited nonetheless at the prospect of moving locations and countless hours to
stare mindlessly out the bus/train/car window at new landscapes passing by. Typically things would be planned out. We would have
scoped out the bus schedule at least a day in advance, maybe even have tickets purchased. It would be a fairly big event, and we
tried to space them out a bit. Not too many travel days in a row. Lately, however, our tactics seem to be evolving. We are still
excited for travel days, new places are always fun, but the “normal” travel days we experienced in the beginning of our trip have
lost some appeal. Simply going to the bus station a day in advance and buying a ticket doesn’t quite have the same charm it used
to, so we have started to modify our methods of travel in order to keep things interesting.

Tanzania, due to its large size and totally sub-par road infrastructure, provided a great opportunity to not only try some new
types of transportation, but also to experience many back-to-back travel days, which we had been avoiding until now. We were first intrigued by the prospect of traveling by boat down Lake Tanganyika in the west. I took a long-distance ferry in Malawi 2 years ago and loved it, and so the thought of traveling down the world’s longest lake in the same fashion was of course appealing. Lake Tanganyika, however, is quite remote and getting there by bus was going to take too long and be quite expensive. Fortunately, Tanzania also has a cross-country train running from Dar es Salaam to Kigoma, the departure port in the north for the ferry. It was meant to be a 40 hour ride (with delays of 24 hours not uncommon) and left Dar twice a week. We were sold.

The morning after my parents left, we went to the train station to buy tickets. The train wasn’t leaving for a couple days, but we wanted to be sure not to miss it. After waiting in line for a bit, we finally talked to the ticket lady. Our conversation went something like this:
Both: Normal greetings
Us: We’d like to buy tickets to Kigoma.
Ticket lady: What class would you like?
Us (switching from Kiswahili to English): Can you describe the different classes?
Ticket lady: There’s 1st class, which is a 2 bed cabin. 2nd class sleeper has 4 beds per cabin, and 3rd class is just a seat.
Us: Great, we’ll take 2nd class.
Ticket lady: 2nd class is full.
Us: Um, ok, I guess we’ll take 1st class.
Ticket lady: 1st class is full.
Us: (trying to refrain from laughing) Well then we will buy 3rd class!
Ticket lady (looks worried/puzzled): You don’t want to take 3rd class.
Us: It’s ok.
Ticket lady turns to her coworker and asks if she can even sell two mzungu women 3rd class tickets.
Ticket lady: Why don’t you come back tomorrow and see if anyone cancels.

We didn’t go back the next day because we had decided to spend a couple nights in the crumbling beachside former capital,
Bagamoyo. We went back to Dar on the morning the train was supposed to depart, however, and upgraded our 3rd class tickets (after
much discussion the ticket lady had let us buy them) to 1st class. Unfortunately, we also learned that the train was already
delayed 24 hours and would now leave the following day. We made the most of our bonus time in Dar by stocking up on food for the
train and eating delicious hummus at a Lebanese restaurant to celebrate my birthday. Then, around noon on Saturday we got on the
train and settled into our 1st class cabin.

The Central Line was built by the Germans just before WWI and covers 1250 kilometers, following the old slave roads. From Dar it
heads west to Tanzania’s capital, Dodoma, then to the large town of Tabora, where a northern line branches off to Mwanza on Lake
Victoria and the Central Line continues on to the port town of Kigoma. Along the way it passes through dozens of villages, many of which are quite remote and only accessible by dirt roads or by train. In the past 100 years since the tracks were built, a very unique culture has developed around the train, which we got to experience first-hand on our cross-country trip.

As we sat in Dar watching the train load, we noticed that riding the Central Line is a lot like preparing for a blizzard at home. Everyone in the station was buying bread, water and flashlights, although mostly just LOTS of bread. Like 6-8 loaves each. We looked at our one loaf and got worried. We might not make it to Kigoma! We later learned, however, that an individual does not need to consume copious amounts of bread to get across Tanzania, but rather they had bought extra loaves to either give away or sell in the remote villages we passed through, where processed white bread has yet to become available. But what these villages lacked in sliced bread they easily made up for in character and charm.

One of my favorite aspects of the train was stopping in the villages. Whenever the train came to a stop, every woman and child
from the village (and many men) would come running up and start selling their products to eager buyers through the train windows.
And in each village, the products were different. First there was a bizarre dried fruit being sold in 5 gallons quantities, then
in the next village it was all woven goods – rugs, baskets, hats, and straw brooms for keeping your train area clean! Then came
the wooden village with beautiful mortar and pestles, wooden spoons, carved whistles, stools, and afro picks. We reached the next
village around lunch time so there were dozens of tables set up with delicious fresh cooked foods being prepared. We went through
the honey region of the country as well as the salt mine region. When we got close to the lake people started selling fish. In the afternoon of the 2nd day we came to a village where they just sold chickens (both alive and dead) and for the remaining 24 hours of our journey there were chickens squaking in our train car! We bought some food and a couple souvenirs because things were so beautiful and so cheap (30 cents for a woven bag and 20 cents for a carved wooden spoon), but our shopping paled in comparison with the other women in the cabins in our car. Our neighbors bought so much we were worried they wouldn’t be able to get in their cabin by the end of the journey!

The young boys also got a piece of the action. They would run alongside the train shouting “nipe chupa” – “give me bottle”. When
the passengers threw their used plastic bottles from water or soda out the windows, the boys would collect them and later sell
them to vendors. The vendors would then refill them with things like honey or cooking oils to sell back to the passengers on the
train. It was recycling at its finest.

At night the train was magical. We leaned out the windows and could see the fire from the engine at the front. With the only
lights coming from the train, the stars were amazing and Liz taught me many new constellations. When we went to sleep on the two
bunks in our cabin we took a piece of wood and jammed the window closed to prevent people from stealing things from us at the
station (a common problem on the train). During the day we mostly just hung out the window and watched the country roll past. We
also made friends with all of the children in our car as well as some adults, and I used the opportunity to progress my Swahili
skills.

We arrived to Kigoma on 3 p.m. Monday, about 50 hours after we boarded the train in Dar. It had been a long journey, but it
certainly had felt nothing like our typical travel days. In fact it had been quite relaxing and we were looking forward to a
similar experience on the ferry, which was scheduled to depart in 2 days time. We CouchSurfed with Insun, a Korean man about our
age who was in Kigoma teaching at a secondary school with a program comparable to the Peace Corps. We rested up, washed the layer
of dirt off our bodies that had accumulated from days of hanging out a train window, and ate delicious Korean food. We also toured the area and went to the place where Stanley met Livingstone and said the famous quote “Dr. Livingstone, I presume?”

On the morning of the day the ferry was scheduled to leave, we went with Insun to his school. He brought all of the Form 4 students into the classroom (close to 100 students) and we talked to them for almost an hour about our jobs back home and our trip. We let them ask us questions and we were thoroughly impressed and in a couple cases a bit stumped as to how to answer. Here’s a few of the many they asked:
Why go into the mountains and not just solve the problem of snow? (In reference to the cold weather and our winter jobs on a
mountain)
Both Tanzania and the U.S. were British colonies. How did the U.S. develop?
What advice do you have for people when choosing a president?
And my personal favorite:
You said that the internet is connecting the world with things like Facebook and Twitter…so, can we have your Facebook? (Well played. We proceeded to give our email addresses out to one hundred 16-18 year old Tanzanian students…)

Feeling recharged, clean, and happy to have had another unique experience in Tanzania, we were ready to board the ferry. We had
even prepared some food to bring with us (hardboiled eggs and guacamole) and bought some last chapatis near the ferry dock. Then,
around 2 pm on the 20th we boarded the MV Liemba to head south.

The MV Liemba is a German boat that was built in 1913 and then disassembled and transported across the country via the Central
Line (the same train we took). During WWI the Germans intentionally sunk it to prevent it from falling into enemy hands and it sat on the bottom of Lake Tanganyika for 8 years. It is currently the oldest passenger ferry in use in the world and travels every other week from Kigoma in Tanzania to Mpulungu in Zambia (around 550 kilometers) down the eastern shore of Lake Tanganyika. The lake is very narrow but quite long (the longest in the world) and also very deep (the lowest point on the African continent). The water, which is very clean, is a stunning turquoise color and tropical fish thrive under the surface. On the Tanzanian shore is the remote Mahale National Park, which is comprised of lush green mountains and many waterfalls visible from the lake and is one of the best places to observe chimpanzes. The western shore is lined with the mountains of the Congo. It is easily one of the most beautiful lakes I’ve ever seen.

So for three days and three nights we slowly cruised south towards Zambia. This time we purchased 3rd class tickets because with
the foreigner markup everything else was just too expensive for our budget. So we set up a base camp on the top deck, beneath the
stars. We hung up the hammock and unrolled our sleeping pads and although everything got covered in soot from the engine, it was
really quite luxurious. During the day we made friends with some of the other westerners on the boat as well as some local
Tanzanian men who were very entertaining to hang out with, especially when we brought out the Konyagi bottles (local gin). We also spent a lot of time talking and hanging out with Yusuf, the navigator/co-captain of the boat. He told us all sorts of information about the boat and the lake and even woke me up one morning to point out some mountains we were passing. Between our friendship with the navigator and the fact that the ferry virtually had no rules (you could literally walk anywhere you wanted), it was a very relaxed vibe. We even got a tour of the engine room on our last night!

With the exception of Kigoma, Kasanga (the last port in Tanzania), and Mpulungu, none of the other villages have docks for the
ferry. When we reached these villages, little motor boats, and sometimes canoes, would be waiting and would swarm the ferry as
soon as the engine was shut off (and occasionally before). It provided quite good entertainment and we watched as the boats
jockeyed for the best positions alongside the Liemba from where they could unload their passengers and goods headed to Zambia,
pick up people disembarking, buy some pineapples (the entire ferry was loaded with pineapples in a situation similar to the bread
on the train), or sell fish. There was always a great deal of yelling and it was the only time we ever saw Tanzanians angry. It
was a very rushed ordeal and children were literally thrown from the ferry to the little boats and vice versa. Miraculously, we
only saw one person fall in.

We thoroughly enjoyed our time on the ferry and when we reached Zambia we were a little sad to get off, especially since we had a
full “normal” travel day ahead of us. My body rebelled, however, in the form of a fever and zero energy and we were forced to stop earlier than intended. The next morning, after my malaria test came back negative and I instantly felt better, we were back on the road. In the past week since we’ve been off the ferry, we’ve had more travel days than not. We zipped across Zambia because we just got a transit visa to save money. We spent one day in Lusaka, then had a terrible travel day where we argued with a lot of minibus drivers who refused to give us our money back after we sat on a bus in the station for 7 hours waiting for it to fill. But, we made it to Victoria Falls, and it was well worth all the frustration. The falls were incredible. We happened to be there for the full moon so we went back at night to see the lunar rainbow, which is created by the combination of the mist from the falls and the light of the full moon. Then it was on to Botswana, where we’ve been doing a lot of hitchhiking. We now have finally stopped moving at the Okavango Delta, the world’s largest inland delta. It’s a good place to relax. We’re camping right along the river and after many days of movement, it feels good to be stationary.

The train ride and the ferry were both incredible and offered a welcome change from our typical bus travel. But whether traveling
by ferry, bus, train, or hitchhiking in a semi, one of the best things about travel days are the conversations we have. Not only
have we learned a lot about the countries we’re in from people we meet on travel days, but just like the students in Kigoma, we
try to teach people about where we come from. So many people we meet know very little about the U.S. and it blows their minds when we tell them that in the U.S. there are also homeless people, and natural disasters and that the government doesn’t just hand us money so we can travel. Travel days are never easy. It always takes longer than expected. But with the right attitude and good company, they can be pretty enjoyable.

Sorry for the lack of pictures, the internet here in Botswana is too slow and too expensive. We will upload another gallery of pictures that should have been in this post as soon as possible!

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Addendum to Adult Vacation

Due to the fact that we posted our last blog from the internet cafe at the Dar post office, and had already payed for 4 hours between both of us (we have turned into slow typists), there are a few things we neglected to mention.

1. We left out the portion from our Zanzibar beach vacation when we were stopped at one of the many police check-points throughout the island and Richard was cited for not putting on his turn signal when stopping for the cop (in the middle of the road…) This incident (after much confusing discussion) resulted in us bribing the cop, a new first for us in our travels.

2. Current travel update: We just spent 2 nights in the former capital of Tanzania, Bagamoyo (about 70 kilometers and a painful 2 hour dalladalla ride north of Dar). It was more run-down and deserted than Lonely Planet led us to believe, and the ocean was almost too hot to swim in. We did manage, however, to relax (some more…) and enjoyed walking around the crumbling buildings. We also made friends with some Tanzanian Peace Corps Volunteers, who provided good drinking company.

3. Upcoming travel update: To celebrate Rachel’s 26 years on the planet, we are taking a train across all of Tanzania from Dar to Kigoma on the shores of Lake Tanganyika. The train was supposed to leave yesterday, but was delayed 24 hours, so hopefully we will depart today. They tell us it will take 40 hours, but to expect delays of up to 24 hours (we don’t think this initial delay counts towards that…). The delay did allow us to go out for a birthday dinner at a Lebanese restaurant which served truly delicious hummus!

4. We apologize for any typos or terrible grammar in the last post. On top of the fact that we are getting less and less accustomed to writing in English, we didn’t have time to edit our post before we published it!

5. We have bought plane tickets home and will be arriving at JFK on May 8th after 6 days of fun in the desert at Afrika Burns (South Africa’s Burning Man from May 1st-6th). Anyone eager to hear stories first hand, feel free to come to NY and drive us to Boston. We hear the Fung Wah bus is no longer running…

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Adult Vacation

For the first two weeks in March, we had the pleasure of being joined on our travels in Tanzania by Rachel’s parents, Lynn and Richard. Not only was it great to spend some time traveling like adults (and not like completely broke backpackers), but we also had a fabulous time with them and were really happy that they were able to come meet us. Here is a summary of our time with them, broken up into 3 segments:

Arusha – written by Rachel

We arrived in Arusha a few days before my parents were to scheduled to arrive (and a day earlier than we had initially planned due to an abandoned CouchSurfing experience in Nairobi) in order to give ourselves time to prepare for their arrival and also to get reoriented to the city. In 2008 I studied abroad in Tanzania through an SIT program and spent a good deal of time in Arusha. I returned in 2010 briefly, so I remembered a good amount, but the city has been developing so quickly that many new buildings and even traffic lights meant that it took a solid day of us walking around for my memory and orientation to fully return. For our first few days in town, before my parents arrived, we stayed with an old friend Hellen who had worked for SIT when I was in the program. She kindly opened her home up to Liz and I and we were happy for the relaxed and comfortable environment. She even let us use her kitchen, which is a real treat during our travels, and we made a Chinese dish we learned about in Phnom Penh as well as apple crisp!

During one of our days in town, we ventured up to Bangata, the small town outside of Arusha where I had lived for 3 weeks during my homestay. Fortunately, my baba’s (father in Kiswahili) phone number hadn’t changed since I last saw my family in 2010 and we were able to tell them we were coming. They were thrilled that I had returned and I was equally excited to see them. The kids are now much older (and taller) than when I lived with them 5 years ago, and I was shocked to learn that there is now a 5th child! While we cooked chapatti (a skill they proudly taught me in 2008) with Tuma, now 20 years old, she told Liz and I that she would be starting college in Arusha in May to study Hotel Management. When Godson, the only boy and the 2nd oldest at 16, returned home from school, I was amazed at how tall he’d grown and how much he resembled his father. But the real reason for our visit that day was to tell them that my parents would be arriving the following day from America and to see if we could all come back to visit on Sunday. Everyone, especially my mama, was thrilled with this and asked me numerous times during my visit if it was really true that my parents were coming. We also stopped by my old school in Bangata and visited all of my teachers from my program who were happy to see me and impressed that I can still speak some Kiswahili!

On March 1st, the day my parents arrived, we moved our stuff from Hellen’s place to the lodge they had reserved rooms in – a really nice place in a quieter part of town that even had a swimming pool (unheard of in our normal accommodation!). Their plane didn’t arrive until 9 pm and the airport is about 45 km from town, but we figured out how to take a shuttle through one of the airlines out to the airport to meet them. I could hardly contain my excitement watching for them to come through the arrivals door, although we did feel a tad bit out of place amongst all of the safari guides waiting for their clients with big signs.

We had the weekend to spend in Arusha, and were planning on heading to Bangata on Sunday, so we had planned to spend Saturday touring around town and letting my parents adjust to the heat, the time difference, and the entirely different culture. In retrospect, our market itinerary might have been a bit aggressive for their first day, but they didn’t let it show as we trekked all over town and visited the used clothing market, a food market, AND the tourist market. We stopped for lunch at some point during the day and at a local spot that Hellen had taken us to a few days before. Unfortunately, they were all out of ugali, but we did get some delicious chapatti, rice, chicken, and beef to share around and sample. That night, to further my parent’s local food education, we went out to a nyama choma joint (the Tanzanian equivalent to a BBQ restaurant). We met Hellen for dinner and we all enjoyed some Tanzanian beers and lots of roast goat, chicken, and chips (not the healthiest, but definitely the most delicious food!).

I had arranged that on Sunday at noon we would arrive in Bangata, so around 11 we began the journey. Fortunately it has been made a lot easier in the past year due to road improvements, but it still involved a walk, followed by a dalladalla ride (dalladallas are the Tanzanian minibus, and as the saying goes, “there’s always room for one more in a dalladalla!”), and then a pikipiki (motorbike) ride up the road to Bangata. When we arrived it was clear that since Liz and I had left 2 days before preparations had been underway for the highly anticipated visit of my parents. Soda had been purchased and Tuma and Mama were busy preparing a feast. For a while, until lunch was ready, we hung out around the house. I introduced everyone and did my best to translate for both families (with the exception of Tuma, who is very shy, and Godson, who is still learning, no one in my Bangata family speaks English). I showed my mom and dad the room that I had lived in, which is now occupied by a new student named Shelby, and the various animal pens out back, as well as the kitchen, which is in a separate room outside of the main house. Neighbors came by to visit and meet all of us, and Babu (grandpa) and Bibi (grandma) also stopped in to meet my parents. For a little while we joined Tuma and Mama in the kitchen and helped with the cooking, but then were ushered back inside the house when lunch was ready. The food was delicious, they had even cooked meat in honor of my parents being there, which was a very special treat. After lunch, my Mama wanted me to help cook chapatti, so we all went out to the kitchen. My parents were eager to help and my Mama was thrilled that they wanted to learn, although admittedly everyone was amused that my dad was helping to cook. When the chapatti was done, we ate more and also shared around some of the R&L Bars (sort of like 7 layer bars, minus 4 layers) that my mom had brought Liz and I from home.

We had also brought with us an assortment of gifts including a Mudflat bag for my mama and baba, some rulers and art supplies for the youngest 3 girls, a soccer jersey for Godson, and a music player for Tuma for when she starts school in May. The music player was a big hit, especially when we showed Godson how to play the SD Card I’d filled with an eclectic collection of American songs, which led to an amazing moment of Bibi outside dancing to Soldier Boy. Lastly, we gave the whole family the game Uno, so for about 45 minutes all 11 of us, plus Bibi, sat around and we taught everyone how to play.

As the day was drawing to a close, we decided that we needed to take some group pictures. Everyone in my Bangata famiy got changed into their best clothes, and we all went out front of the house for a photo shoot. After the obligatory group shots, we spend at least another half an hour taking all sorts of pictures with just about every group of people. Rehema, the middle child who was 5 when I lived there, was especially excited when my mom let her borrow her hat as a prop. Before we left, my mama and baba called us all back inside so they could give my mom and dad presents – a khanga and a Maasai blanket, that they presented to them one by one.

Everyone was full of smiles by the time we had to leave, and my baba, who was heading to work in Arusha, offered to walk with us back down the mountain to the main road. Mama and Anita (the youngest) accompanied us through Bangata, and then said goodbye. Tuma, Rehema and Prisca stayed with us for a bit longer, but then turned back as well. And Baba walked with us all the way down to the road, taking us on many shortcuts through the beautiful banana groves that cover the hills. It had been a long day, but one filled with an amazing amount of laughter and happiness. I felt really grateful to have the opportunity to introduce everyone and my family in Bangata welcomed us so warmly into their homes. They were all very happy to get to meet my parents, but they made me promise that next time we visit, we bring Adam.

Safari
– written by Liz

We flew from Arusha to the Serengeti in a tiny little plane that made my heart race and my stomach drop. But we stayed below the clouds and the scenery more than made up for my panic attack-like state. As we took off Mount Meru was visible between a sandwich of clouds and Kilimanjaro was a shimmer of snow fields in the distance. Then we were cruising West over vast plains where the circular boma’s of the nomadic Maasai could be seen sporadically below. Then an abrupt ridge of mountains with trees so green they made the grass look like dust. But those quickly gave way, once again, to the endless plain, this one known as the Serengeti. After only 40 minutes in the air, the plane began its short decent and I gasped as I saw a herd of elephants, a family of giraffes, and a few buffalo from above. We landed in a cloud of dust in the middle of an enormous expanse of grassland.

We were met by our guide for the next four days, Casmir, whose boundless knowledge of the plants and animals we encountered was a little humbling. We piled into our Land Rover and we were off. We quickly found ourselves looking at beautiful birds, distant elephants, and giraffes, and hippos. There were animals everywhere! Literally everywhere we looked there was some sort of large animal that we were close enough to study. I was astonished. Having never been on anything like a safari before, I didn’t really know what to expect (and over the course of this trip, I have learned that things work our best when I keep my expectations low). I assumed that most of what I had heard about safaris was a lot of hype and that we would spend most of our time just driving around “looking” for animals. I didn’t actually expect to see them.

Then, after about half an hour, a call came through on the radio and we raced off. A leopard had been spotted nearby, not far from a road. We drove to the spot where at least 20 other Land Rovers filled with ogling white people were parked. And there in a tree, not 80 feet away, lounged a leopard. We spent the next twenty minutes or so marveling at the huge cat that sat before us. She stretched and lolled her head from side to side lazily while hundreds of cameras snapped her picture. We watched her with our binoculars, marveling at the size of her paws, the position of her legs, her beautiful markings.

Then, all of sudden, she was alert. She stood on the branch and trained her eyes off in the distance, far beyond the parking lot of paparazzi. Before we knew it she jumped out of the tree and was treading stealthily through the grass right beside the road. We drove slowly next to her, tracking her movements in the tall grass. There was a small group of giraffes not far ahead and we wondered if she was hungry enough to risk attacking something so much larger than herself. A little further along we realized what she was really after. A family of three warthogs was drinking by a small pool of water. One of them was much smaller, a baby. We drove carefully to a spot where we could see both the leopard and the warthogs and waited with cameras at the ready. After many long minutes of waiting, she made her move. There was a spray of dust, a squeal, and then the leopard and the baby warthog cart wheeled through the air together. When they landed the warthogs trotted off together while the leopard stood by, looking stunned. The action lasted only a second or two, luckily, both Richard and Rachel caught the entire thing in videos on their cameras. After the leopard cornered the baby warthog, the mother warthog returned and rammed both the leopard and the baby sending them both into the air and stunning the leopard enough that all of the warthogs could escape. Casmir was amazed at what we had seen and pronounced our group lucky. He was right.

Over the next four days of safari-ing, we witnessed many things that none of us had imagined we would see. The first afternoon we spotted our first lions not far from the car, then a herd of elephants taking baths, and a couple of lions getting it on. That evening we went back out and realized that the first wave of the Great Migration had begun. The Great Migration is the seasonal movement of almost 2 million wildebeest and zebra. The line of animals stretched from horizon to horizon and we were often so close that the animals parted around the car, making us feel like we were migrating as well.

In the evening, surprisingly tired considering all we did was ride around in a car all day, we returned to the tent camp that is run by the safari company. This was unlike any “camping” that Rachel or I had ever done. The beds were the nicest we’ve slept in this entire trip, there were hot water showers and toilets in each tent, and the towels were soft and smelled like soap. We were served incredibly large and delicious mostly Western meals which we ate by candlelight in the dining tent. We wished that we had more time to relax around the camps, but we were too busy looking for animals to relax.

The second day was also spent in the Serengeti. Highlights included a lot of time with the zebras and the wildebeests, hippos rolling over, many lions, baboons, and birds. And don’t get me wrong, though we did spend most of our time looking at animals, the scenery was stunning and easily would’ve been enough to keep me happy on its own.

On the third day we packed up our belongings and piled in the Land Rover for a longer drive to a new campsite, this one in Ngorongoro Crater. On our way out of the park we passed more lions, some hyenas, and many antelope and impalas. About mid way on our drive we stopped at Oldupai Gorge, where the earliest human fossils were found. We walked around the museum, listened to a talk, and took in the view of the gorge.

Just an hour later we were at the rim of the crater. The Ngorongoro Crater was formed when a mountain about the same size of Kilimanjaro erupted and collapsed on itself between 2 and 3 million years ago. The crater is the largest unbroken caldera in the world and encloses an area of 100 square miles. It contains a lake as well as grassland and a small forest, making it a perfect habitat for many of the grazing animals we were already familiar with. And where there are grazers there are also…predators! The animals are much denser in the crater than in the Serengeti so it is easier to spot the action.

After lunch on the rim of the crater, and a nice little rain storm, we descended to see what we could see. On that first afternoon we spotted many zebra, wildebeest, impala, antelope, elephants, flamingos, a couple of rhinos, and, our excitement for the day, a pride of lions gorging themselves on a freshly killed buffalo. There were 8 lions of various sizes staked out around the carcass. Two or three would eat while the others rolled in the grass trying to digest so they could eat some more. Their stomachs were massive and they seemed groggy whenever they stood to stretch. We learned that they had killed the buffalo around 7 that morning…it was now 5. They had been eating all day! And they weren’t even close to being done.

The next morning we woke up early, hoping to see more animals. We drove into the crater which just the faintest light of dawn. We stopped by the buffalo carcass and found the lions still there, now more than 11 of them, stomachs even larger than the day before. We guessed that they would be finished eating soon and turn the carcass over to the hyenas and jackals who were circling, waiting their turn. By lunchtime we were beat and felt like we had seen enough animals to keep our heads spinning for awhile. We returned to camp and in the afternoon went to visit a nearby Maasai boma.

Zanzibar – written by Liz

After four days of safari it was time to say goodbye to Casmir and to journey to Zanzibar for the final chapter of our adult vacation. We boarded another tiny airplane (smaller even than that first!) and flew to Zanzibar (making two nerve racking stops along the way—it didn’t help that we were seated behind the pilot who was younger than us and played tetrus the whole time). We rented a car and Richard drove us out to the village of Bwejuu on the East coast. We were the only guests at our small bungalow bed and breakfast for the next three nights.

Despite some overcast and rainy weather, we spent the next couple of days exploring the villages and beaches of the island. We went on long drives (sometimes pushing the car through muddy rice paddies and crossing our fingers that there would be pavement again), swam in sparkling waters, lounged and read, ate too much seafood, and played many overly competitive games of cards.

On the third day, in the midst of a flash flood, we drove back to Stonetown, the heart of Zanzibar Town, the only city on the island. We navigated through flooded streets to a nice hotel. We spent the rest of that day and the morning of the next exploring the twisted alleys and streets of Stonetown, shopping for souvenirs, and admiring the many carvings that adorn all wooden surfaces throughout the city.

Then we were on the ferry headed back to the mainland and to Dar es Salaam, the last stop on the Freierman’s whirlwind tour of Tanzania. We arrived in the evening with only enough time to repack bags, shower, and eat Indian food, before it was time to say our goodbyes.

Despite all that we managed to do in the two weeks that Rachel’s parents were with us, it seemed that the time went by way too fast! We thoroughly enjoyed their company and it was great to be traveling with other people again. We are very happy and grateful that they were able to make the trip over to join us.

Please enjoy the massive collection of pictures below. They’ll be more to come, but here’s a taste. Sorry that they’re a bit out of order!

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